Are you tired of feeling like your co-teaching experience is more like a broken record, playing the same stressful tune over and over again? 


If you're nodding your head in agreement, you're in the right place! Just like *NSYNC can hit the high notes in perfect harmony, you can, too, when it comes to co-teaching. Let's look at three strategies to help you turn your co-teaching stress into success!

Strategy #1: Say ♬♬Bye Bye Bye ♬♬ to the Co-Teaching is Like a Marriage Metaphor

In many schools today, co-teaching between special education and general education teachers is often compared to a perfect marriage.

Picture it: two teachers working together seamlessly, communicating effectively, and creating a safe, supportive classroom environment for all students. 

It sounds like a beautiful dream, doesn't it?

But let's be honest; if you've ever co-taught, you might agree that the marriage metaphor doesn't quite capture the reality of your co-teaching situation. Educators usually don't get the luxury of "dating" their co-teacher before the school year starts.

I don't know of any teacher, including myself, that has ever been able to choose their co-teacher based on their personality and compatibility. Instead, you're often paired with someone you may not know well, which can lead to a less-than-stellar, highly stressful partnership.

But the good news is that with just a few simple strategies, you can say ♬♬ Bye Bye Bye! ♬♬  to co-teaching stress and ♬♬ Hi Hi Hi ♬♬ to co-teaching success!

♬♬ Bye Bye Bye ♬♬ to Co-Teaching as a Marriage Playlist

Like listening to songs on a playlist, taking step-by-step actions is the key to unlocking your co-teaching potential. Each action included in the playlists in this article is like a carefully curated track designed to help you navigate the complexities of co-teaching.

By following these steps, you'll find yourself in perfect harmony with your co-teacher, achieving the collaborative success that will leave your students singing in perfect harmony. So, let's press play and explore these simple strategies one by one, ensuring that your co-teaching journey is filled with number-one hits.

1. Sing ♬♬ Bye Bye Bye! ♬♬ to Co-Teaching as a Marriage

Your path to co-teaching success begins by letting go of the idea that co-teaching must resemble a perfect union. Instead, be open to a more dynamic, collaborative approach.

2. Sing ♬♬ Hi Hi Hi! ♬♬ to Co-Teaching as a Singing Competition Reality Show

Embrace the idea that co-teaching is like participating in a singing competition. It's about teamwork with someone you may not know well or don't even like. Co-teaching allows you and your co-teacher to showcase your talents and create something beautiful together.

3. Commit to Collaborating with Your Co-Teacher

Using the 'Bye Bye Bye to Co-Teaching Stress Checklist', swap the quest for a perfect marriage with a wholehearted commitment to collaboration. Co-teaching thrives when you harmonize your strengths, not when you try to match personalities. It's time to tune in to Teaching In Sync and transform your classroom into a stage where each partner's unique talents create a symphony of success.

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Strategy #2: ♬♬ Don’t Just Tell Me That ♬♬ Instead, Engage in a Collaborative Talk

Co-teaching can often start with unexpected surprises, much like a surprise twist in a reality show. You may find yourself suddenly paired with another teacher in a shared classroom with feelings of uncertainty. But remember, your co-teacher is likely feeling the same way. Building trust and collaborative communication from the beginning is essential to succeed in co-teaching.

Investing time to cultivate a strong, collaborative relationship is the ultimate key to success. It allows you and your co-teacher to create a shared vision for your inclusive classroom and ensures you work towards the same goals and objectives. A strong relationship with your co-teacher increases the likelihood that you will collaborate effectively and work together to plan and deliver differentiated instruction that results in improved student outcomes. 


Trusting each other's expertise and judgment leads to greater confidence in each other's abilities and a more fulfilling working environment. Here are five steps to reduce the stress from a dysfunctional co-teaching relationship.

♬♬ Don’t Just Tell Me That ♬♬ Instead, Engage in a Collaborative Talk Playlist

1. BSB4Talk to Build Trust Through Personal Connection

Building trust is the first step toward success in the world of co-teaching. Just as in a music reality show, where contestants connect before taking the stage, you and your co-teacher must establish a strong foundation of trust through genuine conversations.

Initiate a collaborative talk with your co-teacher that goes beyond the classroom. Start with a little BS. Take the first few minutes of every co-planning meeting to discuss your family and share personal interests or experiences. This small talk lays the groundwork for a robust, collaborative co-teaching relationship, making it more comfortable and enjoyable for both of you.

2. Say ♬♬ Bye Bye Bye! ♬♬ to Assumptions 

Just like in a music reality show, assumptions can lead to discord. To avoid confusion, share your background, experiences, and teaching philosophies. Understand each other's strengths and areas for growth. This sets the stage for effective collaboration.

3. Strike the Right Note with Classroom Management 

In any co-teaching duet, classroom management is crucial. Discuss classroom procedures, behavior expectations, and your roles in managing student behavior. Create a unified approach to maintain a harmonious learning environment.

4. Define Roles and Responsibilities 

Next, it's time to clarify who does what. Define your specific roles and responsibilities in the inclusive classroom. 

If you have a para-educator in your inclusive classroom, discuss their role and assign specific tasks and responsibilities. Determine how they can assist with individualized instruction and provide targeted support to students who require it.

Doing so ensures everyone is on the same page, minimizing confusion and maximizing efficiency.

5. Create a Shared Inclusive Classroom

Just as students want to feel a sense of belonging, co-teachers should feel comfortable in your shared classroom. To ensure everyone feels a sense of belonging, discuss how you'll organize and arrange the classroom to make it a truly shared space where you and your co-teacher feel at home.

Strategy #3: Re-imagine Co-Planning to Get to a Better Place

Co-planning can be a powerful tool for co-teachers, but it often needs to be improved due to various obstacles. When administrators don't allocate enough time for collaborative planning, co-teachers may find themselves entering the classroom with differing beliefs about instruction, leading to confusion and inefficiency. This lack of harmonious collaboration can negatively impact students' learning experiences.

The solution lies in re-imagining your co-planning sessions as opportunities to create a harmonious partnership that empowers all students, including those with disabilities, to succeed.


It's about establishing a common planning language and using structured time wisely to deliver high-quality instruction. Here are four steps to re-imagine your co-planning time and get to a Better Place!

Re-imagine Co-Planning to Get to a Better Place Playlist

1. Start every co-planning meeting with a little BS 

To create a welcoming atmosphere for open communication between you and your co-teacher, use the BSB4Talk strategy at the beginning of every co-planning meeting. This quick check-in fosters trust and improves collaboration. 

And in case you're wondering, yes, I shared this strategy earlier, but that's how important it is to achieving success in your co-teaching relationship. I'm repeating it so those in the back of the room can hear me.

Drop a 🔥 in the comments to let me know you're still with me!

Better yet, when you drop that 🔥 in the comments, share a happy memory or fun story you experienced this week so we can put this strategy into action right now. Let's do it!

2. Replace Singular Pronouns with Plural Pronouns

Inclusive classrooms mean that every student belongs to both teachers. During co-planning, replace singular pronouns like "I," "my," or "mine" with plural pronouns to reflect shared ownership of students and responsibilities. This shift in language promotes a collaborative mindset.

3. Come to Co-Planning Meetings Prepared

Maximize your co-planning time by entering the meeting prepared. To maximize your success, you and your co-teacher should have electronic access to co-planning protocol documents and the weekly meeting agenda. Be ready to discuss content standards, learning goals, accommodations, specially designed instruction (SDI), and potential challenges or barriers that may arise during the lesson. Also, review student data and identify students who may need enrichment or remediation.

4. Harness the Power of AI for Lesson Planning

To speed up the co-planning process and enhance the quality of your lesson plans, consider using an AI tool like ChatGPT. Start by constructing a clear, focused prompt that aligns with your teaching objectives. 


Many of the prompts used for lesson plan components can be found in the upcoming book, Teaching In Sync, and are adapted from the PREP EDIT Framework, introduced by Dan Fitzpatrick, Amanda Fox, and Brad Weinstein in The AI Classroom: The Ultimate Guide to Artificial Intelligence in Education.

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You and your co-teacher can leverage ChatGPT to generate student-friendly learning goals, ensuring that content standards and objectives are expressed in language that students clearly understand.

This AI-powered tool can be a valuable asset in streamlining your co-planning process and ensuring that your lessons are engaging, effective, and tailored to meet the diverse needs of your students. Embrace the AI revolution in education and make your co-planning sessions more efficient and productive!

Remember, co-teaching is like a music reality show; you and your co-teacher are contestants.

To win, you must be Teaching In Sync by working together seamlessly to create an inclusive learning environment that empowers all students.


Share your tips, wins, and struggles with your co-teaching journey in the comments below!

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